Services - D
Dance And Dash
A rip-off. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn't provide any services or might offer to "dance" (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash. See cash and dash, ROB.
Date
(1) A session with an ASP. (2) A person who patronizes an ASP.
Date Rape Drug
Rohypnol (generic name flunitrazepam) has been associated with date rape, and has also been called the "Forget Pill," "Trip-and-Fall," and "Mind-Erasers." In combination with alcohol, it can induce a blackout with memory loss and a decrease in resistance. Girls and women around the country have reported being raped after being involuntarily sedated with Rohypnol, which was often slipped into their drink by an attacker. The drug has no taste or odor so the victims don't realize what is happening. About ten minutes after ingesting the drug, the woman may feel dizzy and disoriented, simultaneously too hot and too cold, or nauseated. She may experience difficulty speaking and moving, and then pass out. Such victims have no memories of what happened while under the drug's influence.
DATO
Dining At The O. Analingus, oral stimulation of the anus. See also rimming and Asian.
DATY
Dine At The "Y"; cunnilingus.
DDE
Doesn't Do Extras. Implies the ASP has a very limited and stringently adhered to menu.
DDF
Drug and Disease Free.
DDG
Drop Dead Gorgeous.
DDP
Double Digit Penetration (vagina and anus).
Deep Throat Or DT
fellatio where the whole length of the penis is "swallowed".
Defender
A hobbyist who defends or "comes to the rescue" of a provider who has been reviewed or spoken of poorly, regardless of whether the review or comments are accurate, aka White Knight.
Deposit
a payment in advance of a session. Deposits are usually used by ASPs as a hedge against no-shows.
DFE
Dead Fish Experience.
DFF
Dead Fish Fuck.
DFK
Deep French Kissing. Kissing with deep, substantial tongue contact.
Diesel Dyke
A very butch or manly lesbian, especially one who is very aggressive.
Digital Penetration
Insertion of the fingers (or toes) in the vagina or anus for the purpose of sexual stimulation. This has nothing to do with the insertion of digital devices up anyone's orifice—hold on to those iPads!.
Dirty Sanchez
When two people engage in anal sex, then the person who has been 'giving it' to the other's ass takes his penis or penis-like implement and rubs it on the other person's upper lip leaving a moustache.
DIY
Do It Yourself (masturbation). See also self-service.
Doggie Style
Rear entry position for sexual intercourse. See Spanish.
Donation
A euphemism for a payment to an ASP. Generally considered a feeble dodge against legal concerns—after all if you are giving the ASP a donation or gift, you are not paying for sex.
Double Penetration
when a person (generally a female) has two objects (generally penises) simultaneously inserted in any two of the mouth, anus or vagina (most commonly the anus and vagina).
Doubles
A threesome with two ASPs.
DP
Double Penetration
Digital Penetration
Drag King
A woman who dresses to look like a man, usually for performance. Drag kings are often lesbian, but not always.
DS
doggiestyle.
DT Or Deep Throat
fellatio where the whole length of the penis is "swallowed".
Dyke
Another word for lesbian. Usually is only used by people who are gay, lesbian, bisexual or trans. A straight person using this word may offend some people.