Services - B

B&D

Bondage and Discipline.

B&S, Bait & Switch

Describes a situation where ASP advertisements, which may include photos, written or verbal descriptions, do not match the ASP who shows up, or which has been grossly misrepresented the ASP.

Babyback

Petite, young, attractive Asian woman.

Baby Dyke

A young lesbian or someone who is just coming out of the closet.

Bag

Condom, with a condom, e.g. "BJ in a bag" = CBJ or "I filled the bag" = orgasm.

Baja Sur

Genitals. From the spanish "the low south".

Balloons

Breast implants.

Bare Back, Bareback

Without a condom. Depending upon context it may be used as shorthand for intercourse without a condom (BBFS).

Barracuda

An ASP whose only purpose is to separate you from your money as quickly as possible, preferably without giving you anything in return.

Batin

Groin massage, but sometimes means hand job (from Malaysia).

BBBJ

Bare Back Blow Job. fellatio without a condom; aka "un-translated French" (UTF).

BBBJNQNS

Bare Back Blow Job No Quit No Spit; oral sex performed to completion with swallowing.

BBBJTC

Bareback Blowjob To Completion. Oral stimulation of the penis to orgasm without a condom. (May spit or swallow), aka CIM.

BBBJTCWS

Bare Back Blow Job to Completion with Swallowing.

BBBJWF

Bareback Blowjob With Facial.

BBFS

Sexual intercourse without a condom.

BBW

Big Beautiful Woman. An escort, ASP, who caters to clientele that prefer fuller-figured to overweight women.

BCD

Behind Closed Doors. Often used to mean activities that will be described to a privileged listener or nobody at all.

BDSM

Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. This is a catch-all to refer to the various aspects of negotiated, mutually consensual exchange of power between two consenting adults. Regardless of the depth of the relationship, consent, safety and sanity are the cornerstone of this lifestyle.

Beard

A person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality. In the past, often lesbians married gay men so that both could "pass" as straight, either for work or for their families.

Beret

A condom.

BF

boyfriend.

BFE

Boyfriend Experience, A subjective term used primarily by ASP to describe good clients.

Birdwatching

BBBJTC or CIM and ASP swallows. See BBBJNQNS, NQNS.

Bisexual

A person who is sexually and emotionally attracted to both women and men.

Blackhole

Anus.

Blue Pill Or Blue Steel

Viagra.

BJ

Blow job, fellatio, French. Oral stimulation of the penis.

BL

Body Lick.

BLS

Ball Licking and Sucking.

Body-Rub

A massage or massage-like service. Used instead of "massage", usually to indicate sexual stimulation (usually a handjob) is included and the person performing the service is not licensed as a massage therapist, aka FBSM, Sensual Massage.

Boston Marriage

In the late nineteenth century, it was common for two unmarried women to share a home. Many women, particularly those who were college educated, lived in long-term unions with other women. These relationships became known as "Boston Marriages.".

Brown Eye

Anus.

Brown Shower

Defecation on your partner.

BS Or Body Slide

Service where the ASP may slide their body on the client's body using oil.

Bukkake

A variety of fetish that involves repeated ejaculation of a female by many men. See also gokkon.

Bulldagger

A term that was used in the 1920s to define a very butch lesbian. Often African American.

Bulldyke

A very masculine lesbian.

Businessmen-Only, Gentlemen-Only Or Professional-Only

A subjective request used in ASP advertising as a pre-screen for clients. The ASP posts this in hopes of attracting "better" clientele.

Butch

A woman who adopts what would be considered masculine characteristics.

Butter Face

A women whose body is very attractive, but her face is not. Everything looks good but 'er face.